Improve Your Married Sex Life – A few tips to Spice Things Up in the Bedroom!
Your spouse is the only person you’ll make love to for the rest of your life. As husband and wife, it is your job to see to it that you are sexually pleasing your spouse. Marital sex is not just about “being fruitful and multiplying.” It’s also about connecting on a level that no other man or woman can. As the days turn into weeks, months and years, marital sex can get pretty boring.
Couples have complained about sex being routine, uneventful, forced, and even scheduled. Although sex is not the only point of a marriage, it is an imperative one. When sex is not frequent, when it no longer appeals to your spouse it leaves room for destruction to begin in your marriage, the temptation of being with others becomes more prominent. And thoughts or even acts of infidelity wreak havoc on the marriage.
How can a couple spice things up in the bedroom and improve their sex lives?
Here are some suggestions below:
Get it in anywhere.
Spicing things up in the bedroom doesn’t have to mean that the only place you have marital sex is in your bedroom. You need to be bold enough to have sex with your spouse anywhere. Now, of course you shouldn’t do it somewhere where you’ll get arrested. But, how about sex on the kitchen counter, shower or in the car?
Foreplay is the way to go.
Want to get things going in the bedroom? Foreplay goes a long way in intensifying marital sex. Kissing, caressing, massages, and even playing with toys is a great way to turn each other on for a more intense bedroom session.
Start role playing.
Tired of having sex with the same person? Switch it up! Instead of having sex with your husband tonight, ask your husband to dress up. For instance, go to a bar separately and have your husband buy you a drink and then talk his way into taking you home. Pretend you’re making love to someone else.
Flirt and tease frequently.
When you’re in the mood to get it on, start flirting with your spouse right away. Send him a revealing picture to his cell phone, and let him know what you want when he gets home. Go to his job in nothing but some heels and a trench coat. Get creative in how you flirt and tease your spouse, and you’ll definitely see sparks flying in between the sheets tonight.
Learn new moves together.
There is a ton of material out there on how to improve marital sex. Read a book on various sexual positions. Or, if you’re into it, watch an adult film together and take notes. The idea is to grow together sexually.
The days of missionary positions and sex in the bedroom are long gone.
If you want a fruitful, lasting marriage it’s time to dig in your hat of tricks and find your freaky side. At first, it may seem strange to step outside of your comfort zone, but when you consider the deeper connection you and your spouse can feel, it’s worth it.
Try some of these tips out today, and see if you don’t wake up tomorrow feeling like a new couple!